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What I want love to look like…

Ours would be the type of relationship where we are strong independent – and even stronger together.

We could be objective proof the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. We make each other better.

It was her face that I was initially attracted to,

But it is her soul that I find absolutely gorgeous and breathtaking.

A soul that reminds me what true beauty and love would look and feel like.

She can overthink my overthinking.

Because she always has better ideas.

She has a way of perceiving the nuances of the world that I could never.

She would remind me of the beauty of the world but also the beauty in myself.

She is fun, weird, has a loud laugh and bright smile.

She cries a lot.

But so do I. We will trade shoulders.

She will make me believe in the existence of angels on Earth.

We would enjoy silence together, because even though I always have something to say and enjoy listening to myself talk like any good narcissistic law student, I somehow become speechless in her presence.

She invigorates my self love – re-injecting my life with even more purpose and meaning that I previously that I had much of already.

She would make me enjoy doing nothing together, because boredom doesn’t exist when I can be graced with her presence. Suddenly, doing laundry and taxes looks like a pretty good life.

She reminds me that I can live authentically – that she loves all versions of me. I will remind her that the best version of me is one where we are together.

Edited Oct. 12, 2024.